65. Peter Psomadelis Part 2 - On Grief, Graffiti and Being There

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65. Peter Psomadelis Part 2 - On Grief, Graffiti and Being There

Lui Diaz

Apr 09, 2025

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Peter Psomadelis is a Melbourne legend who’s lived a very colourful life and is full of stories and wisdom. This is Lui’s second chat with the one-and-only, straight from the graffiti-splattered heart of Hosier Lane. Peter’s back, and he’s bringing the unfiltered, larger-than-life energy that made Episode 52 a cult classic. Strap in—this one’s a wild, heartfelt, and occasionally bonkers ride!

Fresh off the loss of his father the night before, Peter doesn’t hold back, diving into stories of grief, resilience, and the beauty of living day by day. From reflecting on the tragic loss of a young friend to hyping up our doctors, nurses and emergency workers as the real rock stars, Peter’s infectious charisma and unscripted tangents keep Lui (and us) on our toes. The episode is a rollercoaster of unhinged moments—like Peter waving at strangers and plotting a Hosier Lane festival—mixed with deep philosophical musings on life, energy, and human connection. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s bloody brilliant. Think of it as a mate’s therapy session with a side of sausage rolls and love hearts.

Highlights

Peter’s Black Rock Goodbye & Army Exit (00:00:15 - 00:00:46) Peter kicks things off with a cryptic tale of tossing a “black rock” behind him when he left the Army, leaving Lui baffled—“Is that an omen or just a rock, mate?” Peter’s response? A nonchalant “Yeah, the past is behind me.” Classic Psomadelis—zero context, all swagger. Sometimes you just yeet the past and move on, no plan required.

The Owl-Filled Night of Grief (00:06:54 - 00:08:28) Peter recounts a sleepless night before losing a 27-year-old friend, spotting owls in Northcote like some mystical omen. Then he casually drops that he boxes at Lionel Rose’s gym for mental health. Lui is like, “Really? Owls?” and Peter’s just rolling with it. Life throws curveballs—owls included—and you’ve gotta keep swinging. (For those who don’t know, in some cultures owls are a symbol of death).

Rock Star Interruptions & Photo Ops (00:11:26 - 00:13:45) Peter’s in mid-story when he spots some passersby and goes full rock star mode: “Hello, ladies! This is Lui the Rockstar!” Next thing you know, he’s orchestrating a photo shoot with Keely and Lucy from country Victoria. Lui is flustered, Peter’s thriving—it’s chaos in the best way. Every moment’s a stage, and Peter’s the bloody director. “LIGHTS, CAMERA, ACTION!”

Day-by-Day Living vs. Planning Debate (00:22:23 - 00:26:35) Lui challenges Peter’s “no plans, day-by-day” mantra with a case for goals and discipline. Peter fires back with hospital wisdom from a florist with breast cancer: “I’m just taking it day by day.” It’s a clash of practicality and zen—and Peter’s not budging. Life’s a tightrope between planning and flowing—pick your poison.

Nurses Are the Real Heroes (00:31:34 - 00:33:28) Peter pivots from corporate “rock star” mockery to a passionate rant about medical pros and emergency workers. “It’s not about saving a life Lui—it’s about being there.” He demands a government policy to protect our emergency workers forever. Lui nods, “Tough gig, mate.” The real legends don’t wear capes—they wear scrubs and deserve our respect.

The “All of It, None of It” Time Travel Answer (00:49:27 - 00:52:33) Lui asks what day Peter would relive. Peter’s response? “None of it. All of it. It’s all energy, mate—I wouldn’t change a thing.” Then he pledges to volunteer at Austin Hospital like Patch Adams. Lui is floored: “You’re all about the here and now.” Every second’s a gift, and Peter’s living proof—past, present, and all.

There you have it! Part 2 of our epic second chat!

🫶 Thanks again for listening and watching! Let us know what you think and catch you in the next episode.